Angry Divorced Guy

I noticed several videos exposing family court corruption.  Some of these videos are personal accounts by ordinary people like you and me who have experienced first hand the pain of family court injustice.  Others are produced by defenders of the victims of these atrocities.

… feeling helpless to do anything about it…

To be fair, while many judges and attorneys profit and become extravagently wealthy shredding the families of small children and abusing their faithful parents with robberies that can only be called injust, many honorable judges and attorneys also suffer seeing these injustices being committed in front of their own eyes yet feeling helpless to do anything about it, and even have to suffer the pain of rendering judgements they know are unfair and yet must do so to comply with the law.

see http://www.nodivorces.us/ for the videos and

see http://www.jail4judges.org for information on legislation to hold judges accountable.

If we want to end no-fault divorce injustice, we will need to keep the issue fresh in the minds of the people, and since people tend to grasp ideas in short sound-bites, here are some chants I think would be effective in bringing pressure through public opinion:

No more stealing from faithful spouses.

God bless us the way we bless the victims of divorce.

Be faithful or go to hell!

God bless us the way we bless the unborn.

No more prostitution of Justice.

Faithful spouses
Treat them right or go to hell

I know some will object to these harsh words.  I think this is about as innocuous as we can afford to be.  Those who steal from the suffering widows of divorce need to be shamed publicly over and over again.   The tide of public opinion needs to be turned against them.  They need to know there are people angry with them.

Our children and our suffering desperately need our anger and our voices — not our apathy and cowardice.

Judgmental?  Think about how judgmental it is to tell ones spouse they are not worthy to have their wedding promises kept.  Think how judgmental it is to tell God He is not worthy of us honoring our vows!  Think how judgmental is to tell the faithful and their children their right to live together in love and peace and enjoy the hard earned shared family assets is not worth any consideration at all!  Think how judgmental it is for a nation to tell its victims of this harlotry they are not worth protecting!

This prostitution of justice has turned our once honorable nation into a public whorehouse run by a Mafia of thugs who drag the faithful into a kangaroo family court system to be threatened with the loss of everything precious and forced to pay protection money to a bunch of thieving, extorting, cowards sitting in a house wrongfully called a court of justice.  And, we pay our taxes for that?

I do not suggest violating the law and taking matters into our own hands with violence if such can be prevented.  But, at the very least, we do need to speak out and to pray and to make this a very public battle until this injustice is ended.

It comes down to choosing whether you will be part of the problem or part of the solution, and you and I will make our declaration before God with the way we live and speak and by the actions we take.

There is a reason a loving God can send someone to hell…

But, it is not up to you or me to choose who will go there.  One person cannot broker another person’s salvation.  We all choose to give up sin or give up Jesus Christ. 

Clearly those who have given up faithfulness, who have given up justice, who have given up sincerity of love, who have given up courage, who have given up honesty, and who drag the faithful and their children into court to be robbed of everything earthly precious, those people must have given up Jesus Christ or else they would never be able to carry out these cowardly and reprehensible acts of robbery against the faithful and their children.

It is entirly honorable and right and according to God’s will that these people be warned they are going to hell.  They abuse every blessing bestowed upon them by God including the gift of life, and they use those blessings to rob the faithful and their children. 

They are worse than whores.  They are worse than mere liars.  They not only violate their own bodies but presume the right to violate the ones to whom they had pledged eternal love and faithfulness.

Attorneys and judges and others who seek to profit from this, who fight to increase this robbery of the faithful and their children, those who live in mansions and drive around in luxury cars and take their vacations out on the French Riviera to the loss of the faithful and their children will one day take their vacations swimming in the eternal lake of never ending fire together with their loved ones.

And that is a good thing.  Jesus did not die on the cross to give presumptuous and arrogant and overly entitled people a ticket to go to heaven while living a life serving the devil for profit.  It is a good thing heaven will not be spoiled by the likes of Hitler, Stalin, abortionists, or those who rob the faithful and their children.

It is sad they have to perish to hell, but they made a mockery of God in this life and hurt the very people God loves.  They brought disgrace to God at every turn and they are numbered with the hypocrites like Tiller who attended church while slaughtering children in abortion clinics before they could even take their first breath.  It is a good thing heaven will not be spoiled by the presence of such horrible individuals.

God has done all He could wisely do to save them.  He has given them an inborn awareness of His presence and of right and wrong, and they chose wrong.  He has given them loved ones to pray for their souls, and churches to teach them of His Word.  He spilled His blood on Calvary to pay for their sins, but they would not repent from their injustice and arrogance.  And, they fought to defend the sins of the unfaithful and their partners in crime while robbing the children and their faithful parents to do so.  There are no words reprehensible enough to describe the depth of their cowardice, dishonesty, and injustice.  It is a good thing heaven is not spoiled by their presence.

They will perish and with them they will take their loved ones as they have no power to save them.  How can one person distrust Christ while leading others to trust Christ?  How can one go to hell while leading others to heaven?  One can live in self-deceit and lead others into self-deceit.  But, one cannot go to hell while leading others to heaven.  So, if they perish, they will take their loved ones with them unless their loved ones directly oppose them and their sin.

Some will perish into hell because they saw this evil brought upon others and were called by God to speak up and pray against it, but they refused to do so.  And some will go to hell for other reasons.

But, one thing we can be sure of is the unfaithful will not go to heaven no matter what kinds of charades and dances they try to do before God.  God will not be fooled.  He will not be swindled by ceremonies and facades and pretenses.  All truth will be laid open and every excuse offered up to God will be found a reprehensible, cowardly lie.

So, if you are in a faithful relationship with God and have been robbed through family court injustice or any other kind of abuse, be comforted in knowing that your eternal fellowship will not be with those who perpetrate this injustice upon children and their faithful parents.

Have you ever heard this question before?  “How can a loving God send anyone to hell?”

He doesn’t.  But, thank God that heaven will never contain any liars, adulterers, and such and that every person who deals with their families and spouses treacherously violating their right to be together and enjoy shared family assets and savings and a shared family life, such people will have to answer to a just and loving God who will not believe any lie or faulty excuse and will hold them accountable to the utmost degree.

In the end, if there are ever any adulterers who put their spouses and children through a hell on earth who make it to heaven, it will be a very rare situation.  Most will try to swindle God.  Most will try to play Him for a fool to their own treachery.

Here’s a socially unacceptable shirt nobody has the guts or commitment to wear it.  At least not in America (the home of the free and the brave, um, yeah, right…)

Many people have the mistaken notion that it is sinful to be angry or that it is harmful or that anger is a sign of bitterness, judgmentalism, hypocrisy, and ungodliness.

Truth is, Jesus became angry and turned over the tables when money grubbing money changers were making a profit off of the sales of animals for sacrifices.  It was apparently like a bazaar with people shouting, “Hear, ye, get your animals for sin absolution right here — best deal in town…”

There are times when it is sinful not to be angry — when people stand by by the thousands or millions and watch the faithful, the innocent, and their children raped and robbed by our family court system.  The reason the problem remains is because the people don’t rise up and object to this grave injustice.  So, millions of children grow up in broken homes.

I was in my friend’s copy center one day and I heard a man tell me he was unlike me.  He hated his ex-wife.   He hated her bitterly.  Some men would rather that their ex-wives be dead, run over by a truck, stricken with some disease and taken to hell.

That is not the case for me.  Some feel I defend my ex-wife too much for what she did to our marriage.  My ex-wife had bipolar disorder, and no, she did not handle it well at first.  But, I have not had her disorder so I cannot judge her and say I am better than her because I had that disorder and overcame it.  I see many suffer from it and commit the same sins against their families that she committed.

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Is it patriotic or treasonous to criticize the government?

Some people seem to think patriotism means waving flags and saying, “America: Love it or leave it” and that everyone who finds fault with our nation is a terrorist or traitor.  If such were true, American would have never had its beginning.

True patriotism is loving and cherishing this nation and its people enough to oppose everything that harms and threatens to destroy the very foundation on which this nation was built.  That includes those who would wave American flags while turning this nation into a whorehouse with judges and lawers pimping for adulterers to the harm of the children and their faithful parents.

So, divorce attorney and divorce judge, that’s a nice gold hood ornament you have on your luxury car.  Are you proud of the kid’s family you had to help smash up to get that gold emblem?  Is that your view of patriotism?  Keep it up, and you’ll find there is a special place in hell for people like you.  And, if your own loved ones don’t turn against you and oppose you, you can be certain there is a special place in hell for them, too.  And, the infinite love of God won’t keep you from perishing there if that is the road you choose to continue travelling.

Continue reading Am I a Patriot or a Traitor?

What is this site for?

I find there are two kinds of anger: Good anger and bad anger.

Good anger is productive.  Bad anger is destructive.  That’s simple enough.

If you’re anything like me and you’re going through a divorce, you’ll probably do and say some things you regret.  Other times you may do and say things you are totally proud of.  But, don’t set unreal expectations for yourself that you can handle it all and everything will be fine because you are a man and you can handle hard stuff like this.  Phooey.  Divorce can rip your toes out through your nose and beat your heart and your children’s hearts to a paste faster than a nuclear bomb can blow up a gnat.

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