After giving serious thought to the marriage websites I set up, I first thought about making this a website focused on anger management, but then thought it might be good to focus it on bringing people who have suffered injustice in family court together, to unite, and bring visibility to the political leaders and accountability for what they are doing to turn this around and how well it is working.

As for communication, part of the problem is indeed the absence of communication, but part of that problem is due to hurtful communication, fighting unfairly, attacking each other rather than the problem, bullying in various ways, disrespect, revenge, bitterness, bad expectations, and altogether the kind of behavior that simply does not work in a marriage. The key here is to try something new within the marriage rather than trying something new outside the marriage. Model good behavior for the children. Take the high road. Be honest. Honor the vows. Forget the past because you cannot change it anyway and neither can your spouse or your children. Don’t condone sin; don’t encourage sin; don’t excuse sin; don’t enable sin; don’t defend sin; don’t seek revenge for sin; but do, do, do forgive sin and take notice when your family members are doing something right. Catch them doing something good!

Yikes–I did this as Administrator, but I’m Dan